Reminiscing is our exclusive series of memoir where people from different walks of life share their memories about individuals who made a difference to their lives in some way or the other.
Today we are in conversation with Nilima Kamdar ,CEO & Founder – Nilima Jobs-Nilimajobs
1. Debasis: What comes to your minds when you think of your Mother?
Nilima : Her love till the end .Her 3 children were still babies for her even when we were actually all grown up . A mother’s love is irreplaceable, which makes losing her to death an incredibly painful experience
2.Debasis: What kind of impact Your Mother has in your life,Specially as a human being?
Nilima : A faithful companions and confidants even in the most difficult times. she dedicated her life to caring and providing for their children,home and husband .She played important role for my Dad in his success in his profession as a doctor ,Rotarian and golfer .
3.Debasis: What kind of childhood memories you have of your Mother?
Nilima : My mother was glad to help me overcome the difficulties I had. … I got very valuable learning experience from my mother, memories take me back to the time when I used to come back home crying from school. She would always gave me a hug and say ‘Don’t worry everything will be alright’.
4.Debasis: Did you fight your mother ever?
Nilima : Many a time from the age 14-20 till I became mother myself.
5. Debasis: All Mothers are multitaskers…..your memories of your mother as a multi-tasker?
Nilima : Mom was an excellent cook ,she managed the house very well ,always believed in saving money .
6. Debasis : When do you miss your mother the most?
Nilima : Every minute ,Mom, her death has caged me in pain, agony and misery. But I don’t have my mind suffering, I do remember her with all the sweet memories and its a beautiful feeling. But I miss mom all the time.
7.Debasis: If there is any thing that you wish you could do for your Mother, what would that be?
Nilima : Her wish was her 3 children take care of each other and live united including grand children and great grand children .Her wish will be fulfilled .
8.Debasis : Your note of thanks to Mother?
Nilima : HEY MAA ,Words cannot express the gratitude and appreciation I feel for you, nor can they begin to define the thanks that I would like to give to you for everything… that you have done for me. You have always been there for me and have shown me the way. You have pushed me to be the best that I can be and are the reason always said be independent I stand where I am today.You are no more but your words have empowered me to become the person that I am today. Mom, I love you and I miss you.